I am listening. I am paying attention and what I am hearing is that not all black people support the Black Lives Matter movement.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s not to say they don\u2019t value the lives of all black people, or POC, but I am hearing that some feel the movement places them in the space of victim. I heard one woman say, \u2018I don\u2019t want you to acknowledge you have white privilege, because that implies that I am underprivileged and I\u2019m not. I don\u2019t want to be put in that world of victim.\u2019<\/p>\n
I also have a dear friend whose beautiful, kind, thoughtful and honest boys are followed by security around their local supermarket because of the colour of their gorgeous skin and I feel deep sadness and anger about this. I hear both of these voices and many many more.<\/p>\n
I am not writing this to argue the point either which way, nor am I in the place to, I wouldn\u2019t assume that position because I am on some levels truly too ignorant.<\/p>\n
What I do know is that I\u2019m uncomfortable being told what to do to be a \u2018good\u2019 person. I\u2019m uncomfortable being told my views and values can\u2019t\/shouldn\u2019t be a certain way, words are wrong, actions are wrong because someone else says so.<\/p>\n
I abhor racism and I stand by opportunity for all (I deliberately avoid the word equal because I don\u2019t believe anything is equal and by trying to create something that fundamentally doesn\u2019t exist we are forcing ourselves, as global neighbours, into some sort of rigid, inflexible paradigm that just ends in frustration and anger). I will raise my children to see and stand up for injustice. Yet I struggle with positive discrimination, doesn\u2019t the work discrimination say enough? Energetically, this is not how I feel balance is restored.<\/p>\n
My work is all about exploring the wounds in our lives that create \u2018inhuman\u2019 behaviour, be that abuse, control, depression, mania, sexism, racism et al. Because the police officer kneeling on George Floyd\u2019s neck was acting in an inhuman way; murder is a divorcing from our soul. I stand with and support all those that want that sort of behaviour to stop, whatever the motivation; I want to help heal our world.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t want to be shamed for doing it in a way that feels soulful to me, whether that\u2019s blacking out my Instagram or not, donating or not. I know I am listening and learning and hearing more than just one narrative on this emotive and painful issue and we all have our own way to learn and path to take.<\/p>\n
All black lives matter to me, the ones who support the movement, the ones who don\u2019t. All lives matter to me, especially those that are struggling, unsupported, wounded and hurting. I stand with you all, but please remember to let me follow my own unique path, just like I would like to bear witness to yours without informing you how you should be.<\/p>\n
Being told who we must be to be a \u2018good\u2019 human is ultimately so disconnecting and alienating, which is the opposite of what is trying to be achieved. This movement doesn\u2019t represent ALL black people, there are multiple expressions, opinions and beliefs about how this world can heal and I want to be open to hearing them all.<\/p>\n
I am listening, I am loving, I am here. That is enough.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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